Kindness in children

Kindness is a topic that we touch on with children from a very young age, almost unconsciously, because in his first teachings is learning to distinguish good from evil, the right from the wrong, the acceptable of what is not, and what we tell them is to be kind, that they help at home and are the first steps to ensure that they go through life always with dignity.

Within these first approaches are the keys to their future as we can teach them to create an environment of peace and tranquility for him and for those around him., learning not to be guided by selfishness and aggressiveness, far from the latter, We also help to have a healthy relationship with it and a better self-esteem.

A caring child can be one who has much more empathy and compassion for other people., animals and even learn to value material things that, although they are not the most important, also the culture of caring and valuing what one has is a task to start at this age, doing his bit to make a better world.

“There cannot be a more intense revelation of the soul of a society, that the way he treats his children "

-Nelson Mandela-

The saying goes that: "Well born is to be grateful" As mentioned above, gratitude is a value that goes hand in hand with kindness, saying the famous magic words "please" and "thank you" in addition to valuing people, things and details received will certainly open doors for you wherever you go.

Saying these words without knowing their meaning and their real weight are a mistake., is to instill making them feel grateful for everything they have, be little, much, It is not to conform but to give value and meaning to each thing, to each person, to every care.

Gratitude also generates good feelings and teaches them to reciprocate with other people., fostering kindness.

Solidarity is another important value, one more brick to encourage kindness in the little ones, consists mainly of giving what we have, on the inside and sharing the material is not giving the leftovers but what is really in and with us.

Being supportive can also be accompanied by empathy, accompanying another in pain, at a loss, in a cause, be able to help another to solve a problem that does not precisely harm or benefit us directly, but also have a commitment at the social level that motivates them to be better, to be support and at some point why not? Life teachers.

If only the mind is educated and not the feelings, education is useless, you cannot possess knowledge, money if the heart is empty, without values ​​without having the ability to feel and act also guided by certain emotions.

To sense, not bad, is not synonymous with weakness, nor precisely to be vulnerable, nor are feelings and emotions directed solely to one gender (boy or girl) it is indistinct, and part of the formation of each child is learning to recognize and channel their emotions. Emotional intelligence is precisely about cultivating kindness along with empathy, love, being also motivations where respect for the other is present.

“We were taught as children how a body is formed, your organs, his bones, its functions, their sites, But we never knew what was the soul made of"

-Mario Benedetti-

Educating in effort is teaching the child that, what you want to achieve will not fall from the sky, you have to win it, and things are achieved based on effort, In addition, collaborating is laying a foundation to support and be able to get ahead of various situations, from housework to school teamwork. Bearing in mind that, every effort sooner or later has a reward.

“When you want something, you have to collaborate. If you want to get there fast, walk alone. If you want to go far, walk in a group "

-African proverb–

The promotion of childlike kindness is also to help them expand their criteria and hearts, generating little ones with an open mind, able to have tolerance with different ideas, people's beliefs and thoughts, that opens doors for them without a doubt, when educating yourself in values ​​for life, opportunities come, the rewards arrive, it's a boost to heaven.

Educate in goodness, in gratitude, Solidarity is giving them an opportunity to live a full and emotionally healthy life and making their hearts a place full of love and good feelings whose reward will be happiness and well-being in their immediate and long-term future..

Reference:lamenteesmaravillosa.com