Educate with love
One of the biggest dilemmas in parenting… the balance between love and limits, It is the main responsibility because, It will depend on what you sow what is achieved with the child in the future, educate with love, with values, guarantees greater fullness to that little piece that in its early years is undoubtedly a sponge, understand and absorb much more than we think, and it is necessary to improve from our trench to contribute so that he learns to love, to be loved, to give and receive.
Educate with love ,the main effort begins in one as a parent seeking the development of being a better person in order to teach another to be one, to act and walk through life with dignity, with love and empathy towards oneself and towards others.
We confuse discipline with abuse, We hide behind the deficiencies that we had in our childhood for through guilt, pamper the little ones in everything without realizing that in the long run, we are hurting them, Well, by not setting limits on basic things, do you think they can have limits throughout life?
Share
Sharing is not just in kind, in money or material things, sharing is giving to others what we have, generosity, affected, support. Love is the best tool to combat fears when we feel vulnerable in certain situations, by sharing the feelings, thoughts make it easier for them to understand and enjoy life. Emotions are undoubtedly part of daily life and growth, of the maturity that is reached over the years.
Express your emotions
Undoubtedly, a repressed child is a child who suffers, is an adult who will suffer for a large part of his life for not knowing how to express emotions, affection, it is healthy for the child's growth to be able to experience emotions no matter if some are negative, it is part of self knowledge, Well, identifying them can help us find which ones are normal., which should be controlled, which ones hurt him and which ones are necessary for his growth and emotional maturity.
Children learn from what they see around them, if you share your emotions with the child, you will give him the confidence to express his own, when they do, don't judge it, don't scold him, listen to him and step off the adult step to understand from his point of view why he feels what he feels. Teach him to differentiate anger from annoyance, despair of patience, the disappointment of deep sadness. With this you can teach him to control and channel the expression and scope of his emotions.
A child's trust is earned through love, empathy and listening, remember they think differently, like children they are. Things that as adults we see logical for them are not, then don't mock don't judge, because these actions are what make a child repressed.
Take care of yourself
Definitely every kid, each family and each head is a world, when involved in daily family life, as tasks will give them a sense of responsibility, preparing him to be self-sufficient and this is teaching him to take care of himself like bathing, take care of your things, handwashing, pick up his room or do homework, also causing them to be considerate of the people around them, teaches them to work as a team for the common good.
The importance of taking care of their appearance makes them aware of their body and cleaning habits as a tool to achieve goals on an emotional level.. For example: A child who is not used to brushing his teeth, due to laziness or laziness, you will undoubtedly be an adult who may be rejected by other people for bad breath, which will cause complexes, repression and even isolation.
If the child is aware of his appearance, you can get your full potential out of it, clear in balance, because it is also true that, beauty doesn't buy everything.
Recognize their creativity
With the emergence of networks, of cell phones, online games have lost a bit the creative and artistic development of the child, it is more comfortable to watch television than to practice a sport. Studies have already revealed that music, Dance, art are universal languages that help the expression of emotions through notes, dances, paintings, because they also allow to have a control of the body, of the mind and emotions in a balanced way.
A girl who practices ballet, it will certainly be more disciplined than one who spends most of the time watching television, dance requires perseverance, effort, discipline, control but also when executing it, emotions are reflected that many times with words cannot be said.
On the psychomotor side, routine helps them achieve healthy development, as it also develops the taste and love for complementary artistic activities, having a much healthier life and in constant balance. Encourage your child, share and strengthen the bond by encouraging him to feel like it doesn't matter if he's wrong at first, your effort will pay off sooner or later.
Preach by example
Undoubtedly, we cannot demand what we do not give, I have heard repeatedly that people give what they have inside, and what they learned especially in the first years of life. Help him relate to positive people, honest, create a strong place from your family environment, brave with vision and goals for the future, with a why before life, Well, those instilled values will help you walk the rest of your life.
Share with the experiences, your life, and what you have learned as well as take it back to the past so that you understand the present and that inner beauty is what remains at the end of the road, well the talent, greatness and wholeness are not qualities that can be bought in the store, they are not on the outside but inside of themselves ready to be exploited.
The importance of gratitude
I suppose that, Did you know that a "thank you" "please" are the magic words to open the doors of any environment where you develop.
A grateful person attracts opportunities, friendships, loyalty, commitment. Human beings are characterized by living in society, in continuous coexistence, of teamwork helping the people around us, treating them as we would like to be treated is part of the gratitude and cordiality.
Within education they are not only subjects, but to promote and develop the human side, cooperation is important to live healthily in society, selfishness in the long run full of loneliness and bitterness.
"Do not spare your children the difficulties of life, rather teach them to overcome them. "
-Louis Pasteur
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